Lately, I received quite a bit of approach about “broken heart”. From men

Yeap! Who said men can’t have broken heart? It seems most of the relationship advises are “protecting” women, I have never seen a good “protection” for men.

Most of the “problems” were mainly about: “why is this happening to me, again?”, “why she broke up with me?”, “I think she is cheating on me!”, “what is the reasons she left me?”, “she changed after marriage”, “she’s not what I thought she used to be”, “I thought she’s the one”…. etc etc…

But, seriously my dear, you gotta stop all these mental chatters in your head, if you really want to find out the “why”, “what”, and “how”.

Christmas is approaching. Definitely it does not feel good when your family and relatives are asking you, “so, when are you getting married?”, “how’s xxx, why isn’t she here with you?”…

So, I decided to write this post, and give it to you men as an early Christmas present — and of course for my beloved women out there too! Hey, I’m a woman, I still “protect” my sistas

Perhaps you could use the tips given to finally get (or get back) the love of your life before Christmas! Or, perhaps, you can finally clear up your head and go with the bran-new-cool-VERY-available-chap celebration. Either way, I can guarantee you a fantastico Christmas this year!

In this post, I’m gonna show you the 3 BIG answers to: “Why”, “What”, and “How”.

If you’re not in “broken heart” categories, in or out of a relationship; this article can be an energy-boost to your heart! Read on baby!

What Do You Really Want?

Honestly, I guess you have heard about this question million of times, and I bet, you are a bit sick of it

Congratulation, if you’re a bit sick of it — cause you seriously really don’t now what you want!

I’m going to be straight to your face a little, and if you are skin-deep-emotion-swinger, I advise you to leave this post now, and find others that only gives you surfacing advises just to soothe your ego.

Still here?

Great! You deserve a kiss :* — and a real woman (a real man for you gal)

If you really willing to listen to your heart, you will know some time during your relationship, your heart has been trying to tell you that “This is not the one for you, knock knock! Wake Up!”

We are not going to find out what or why she is doing this to you, we are going to talk about YOU!

When you are honest to yourself, admit the truth, and willing to find out what you really want, things around you will start to change.

The fact that we keep on attracting the same kind of situations or dramas (just with different co-star), is that we are not willing to work on ourselves — inside ourselves.

It is always easier to point the finger outward — but forgetting when you point ONE finger outward, you have THREE fingers pointing back at you! (try pointing out and you’ll see)

See it?!

Guuuuuud!

Now, take a piece of paper out and a pen. Write down EVERY single quality that you are seeking on your partner. Be as detail as possible, and true to yourself.

If you want to marry a cash machine, then write it. If you just want to have a sex-partner, nothing more, then write it. If you want to have a serious relationship, and something more, then write it!

If you want her to still look like Angelina Jolie after giving birth to 3 kids, kiss you passionately when you come home from work, give you great massage PLUS great sex, forever full of fun exciting energy and independent — Just. Write. Them. Down!

When you have done writing, let’s move on to the next step.

Be One Yourself

The person that you attract, is always a vibrational match to who you are, and what you’re thinking behind your head.

How can you ask for a fun and exciting girl, when all you know is just work work work? Want her to look like Angelina Jolie, while you rode yourself into a big beer bin? Want her to be honest and sincere, while you are cheating on your side. You might say you have never cheated on her, but cheating in business is also a cheat.

When you put yourself into action by being the person that you said you want, you will also dig out what kind of false belief systems you have inside yourself.

Your action will always be a match to your belief system.

When you put yourself into action by doing things that don’t match to your believe system, you will receive so-called “bad situation”.

For example, if you are not the marriage type, don’t believe that all women just want to get married. There are lotsa lotsa women out there have the same mind set as you.

If you “think” you just want a sex-partner, nothing more, and you found yourself feeling “hurt” after some time. Then you realize that you “actually” believe by having sex means something more.

A very typical aspect I found out from all the problems is, believing marriage is going into grave, if not that serious would be in jail.

In one hand, they want to get married. But on the other, they secretly belief marriage is going to hell.

So, guess what happen?

Bingo! They will act as if they are going to hell. When the drama happens and repetitive situations happen again and again, they said “see I told you, marriage is really going to hell”, “women turn into witches after getting married”.

Who put them into hell? Yes, they did themselves.

So, now you found out what you really want is clashing with your belief system. What can you do?

Change Your Belief System

I let you decide which brings better meaning and fulfillment into your life — keeping your false belief system, and continue with your toxic-repetitive situations (and please don’t come running to me crying again ); or change it with one that really gives you a happy life, which you truly want.

Changing belief systems is not some voodoo ritual, nor asking you to climb mount Everest.

It is practically simply saying, “I know what I want, I will put my right action to get it done”.

From the list of “what you want”, that would be your new belief system.

Let’s go back to the sex (yes, I love sex, don’t you?). If you just want a sex-partner, then having sex and enjoying sex is not “wrong”, and you must be able to accept your sex-partner to have another sex-partner.

It is as it is – nothing more.

If you can’t stand your sex-partner to have another sex-partner, then you know deep down inside you, you want something else.

Now about the marriage. If you still secretly think woman will turn into a witch after married, congratulation, you will get what you belief.

And don’t come running to me crying, again! — I’ll give you a straight punch in your face

Examine your actions during the relationship, are you acting like she is your only princess in the world? Or are you acting like now I have gotten her, and she is worthless, she will grow fat, ugly, grumpy?

Ask yourself — What. Is. In. Your. Mind.

Be honest.

You will see what you believe actually comes from the dud surrounding that you were in… errr, may be when you were still peeing in your pants?

All these beliefs that you got, were injected into you “unconsciously” from other relationship-malfunction people around you.

How great is it to take other malfunction-beliefs as yours? … I leave the answer to you.

How about trying this — Woman will turn into a lovely gorgeous princess after getting married.

How does that resonate with your heart when you read that line? Read it again Out Loud!

Do you feel it as true?

If not, congratulation again, you will get what you feel is true! <-- (evil grin)

Na... I'm just pulling your leg.

That just means, you have just found your dud belief. If you are able to just admit you have one, you're already on a speedy path to change your situation.

That is it dude (and ma sistas that are reading this).

I have just given you proven methods as present. It is up to you to take action or sit around “enjoying” your old-dud self.

No one can change your situation for you.

Only You Can.

I want to hear your success story before Christmas! Tell me at the comment box below how the above methods had inspired you, what area are you going to change, what have you changed, and most importantly I want to see your new-confident-self.

Have a great Christmas this year!

Today is the day, to stop living for the future.

Hey, this present moment is all that you will ever experience or EVER have!

So, you must learn to enjoy the present, if you are ever to enjoy yourself at all!

(… if you don’t even enjoy yourself, how could you expect others to enjoy being with you?!)

Too many people postpone their happiness waiting for some future goals to be achieved.

People decide that they will be happy

“…when I get a better job”,
“…when I meet the love of my life”,
“…when my children are grown up”,
“…when I retire”

We use these excuses (many countless more that only you know ), to allow
ourselves to live with less enjoyment and happiness than we deserve.

Often time, when we accomplished one goal, we immediately create another. So that we’re constantly waiting for our lives to become worthy to enjoy… rather than simply enjoying the life we have Right Now!

Well, obviously it IS vital to keep striving towards the betterment of our lives, but we must also be able to enjoy ourselves while we are creating a better future.

The way to do this is, to realize that this present moment is all that we will ever experience!

Both the past and the future are abstractions of our mind.

The only intimate, real experience is that of this moment.

In this moment lies our ability to make changes in our lives, and create the future that we have always wanted.

If we cannot be happy now, when will we ever be happy?

So, what can I do now?

Fortunately, there is a simple method for enjoying this moment, and the
key is awareness.

Simply be fully aware of whatever we are experiencing right now.

Focus our awareness on our senses, and feel the sensual nature of physical reality.

Look around us, really, try to see the world, and listen quietly to any sounds entering our brain.

By becoming aware of precisely where we are at this moment, our brain will shift to a more contemplative, relaxed state, and joy will naturally replace the discord of anxiety that comes from focusing on the past or the future.

When we become aware of the eternal now in which we exist, we can begin to feel the creation power that is available to us in every instant, and this power can be used to immediately work towards the attainment of our goals.

Any thoughts to share?

Share with us your opinions or any other method that you have found useful to be happy right now at the comment box below.

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I know you have been waiting EAGERLY until today for the second part of the business lesson from the movie Avatar.

If you haven’t seen the movie yet, go get it from amazon.

Last week, we talked about what Grace said in the movie… It goes like this:

” I’m not talking about pagan voodoo here, I’m talking about something real, something measurable in the biology metaphors…

… The wealth in this world isn’t in the ground. It’s all around us. The Na’vi know that, and they are fighting to defend it.”

Are you ready for it?

Yes? Great!

If not, I would like to thank you for stopping by.

I can see you’re still here … Then let’s rock it!

In fact, businesses have endless of creativity juices – a.k.a products ideas, cool inventions, new improvements – ALL THE TIME!

Yes, I heard you again…

How to find them?

They are everywhere, BUT your “competitors” side

Often time, businesses spent too much time studying so called competitors, and trying to counter fight their competitors’ strategies.

That way, they are “blocking” out their own creativity juices to flow thru them.

They forget what’s their own strength, and how they can do so much better by paying attention to their own vibrational circle.

Everything around us is a collection of memories

Hah! I know, what the heck is that means??

Simply put — we know this universe is formed by energy, and energy changes forms by the “instructions” of intention, which is thru our mind.

What we see around us is formed thru our memories, how our mind tells us how things supposed to look like and supposed to be.

Okie, stay with me…

You don’t have to truly understand what and how all these means… You just have to know, ideas, knowledge, knowings are all around us.

So how can you apply it in business?

Yes, now we come to the most important part!

Just listen to your environment, people around you, and of course — your customers!

They are also a form of energy right?

Yeap! Then they are able to transmit all kinds of ideas, astound tips to help your next product creation or improve your market positioning!

Got it?

What’s your thought about this? Please share with me in the box below, I would love to hear from you!

This week, I’m gonna do something real different

I’m gonna talk about movie! …

Yeap… Why? You’ll see

Have you seen this movie Avatar? (picture on the right)

If yes, great! If not, still cool… You can get it from amazon…

There are few hidden messages in this great movie. But I will just talk about 2 messages — which you can even apply in your business!

YES — in business (I heard you )

1st Message:

In this scene when Neytiri (the Na’vi tribe leader’s daughter, pretty darn hot, sexy AND incredibly intelligent warrior!) was about to let go of her arrow towards Jake Sully (the main charactor, who’s in a “clone” Na’vi body), she received a sign…

A sign from the environment (or universe or Eywa as the Na’vi called) for not to kill Jake.

She followed the guidance…

If you have seen the movie, you’ll understand why she shouldn’t kill Jake in the beginning.

2nd Message:

Grace, a scientist that was sent on the mission to this Pandora land in another planet, was trying to convince Parker (the evil one ) the whole meaning of the universe.

She said…

” I’m not talking about pagan voodoo here, I’m talking about something real, something measurable in the biology metaphors…

… The wealth in this world isn’t in the ground. It’s all around us. The Na’vi know that, and they are fighting to defend it.”

How does it relate to business?

Well, I’m also not talking about pagan voodoo here

It’s something our current day scientists are trying to prove with quantum physics on energy level.

We can relate the 1st message not only in business, in fact in our daily lives.

Have you ever experience when you were about to take some actions or make an important decision in business (or any issues in life), and you just kindda feel not so right to do so?

Or may be there will be someone or a book or a movie that you just encounter showed you a “message” related to that issue.

Sounds familiar?

That is not something “wrong”, that’s just a message (a sign).

And you got to decide whether to proceed, or not — the choice is always yours, and you’re always in control.

In business, we are always being “fooled” by our over-analytical mind (well, somewhat chaotic ) for what should or should not.

We think, follow our heart, is too cheezy or not-realistic.

To be honest, we’re constantly in the mode of Try-and-Error for our daily business operation.

A proven success strategy — if we say it in plain words, that translates to “I have been there, done that, failed too many times till I lost count. And finally I DID IT, and so I’m showing you how to do it now”

Recently I did an experiment. I tried to “push” it through to send a business offer regardless the sign that I received.

You know, I was trained to prove mathematical equation for 3 years in university… and so I “need” a prove

Guess what?

Bingo! — I got my “prove”

Well, as I have learnt how to read sign and I have got a proven strategy to handle this, so I won’t be at the lost

So what would I do the next time I receive the sign?

I’ll just switch my focus IMMEDIATELY towards the one that will bring results, most importantly not to waste time and energy on stuff that won’t bring results!

Well, you know, we are in business right? So no time to waste time, no energy to waste energy.

Do you have similar experiences? Have you switched your focus point? Or are you still believing and operating in if-I-push-hard-enough-it-will-get-through style?

Please share with me at the comment box below…

PS: I’ll talk about how to apply the 2nd message in my next weekly tips. Just hold your horses will you… Now you know why you see the word “Part 1″ in the title

Put your name and email address here, and I’ll send you the Webinar “4 Steps To Use Your Fear To Manifest Your Intended Desires” replay, pronto!

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Here comes the long waited and most anticipated webinar:

“4 Steps To Use Your Fear To Manifest Your Intended Desires”

… is going to happen this coming Thursday, October 21, 2010, at 10:30am-11:15am (GMT +8).

This is a pure content and pitch-free webinar. I don’t beat around the bush. Everything will be presented to you in a straight forward step-by-step manner. Plus, you got to ask questions on how to implement the tools into your life.

Here is what you’ll learn:

• How fear contribute to your problems.
• Why you will “fall in love” with your fear after this.
• The “magic wand” that you can use to help you to walk thru your difficult time.
• See how others had implemented these tools and what are the results that they have gotten.

I urge you, especially when you’re an entrepreneur (or going to be), to participate, understand, and get the tools that can help you to go thru all your most difficult entrepreneurship journey and daily life.

I’m an entrepreneur myself, and I can REALLY understand how it feels on this journey

Once we master this process, we will gain tremendous power in Self-Confidence, inside out! A critical element one needs in order to be successful in business and to get your real love too! (no joke!)

Self-confidence comes from walking through our fears. Each time we walk through a fear, no matter how small it is — we build our self-confidence!

Here is the time zone reference for ya:

• Thursday: Oct 21, 10:30am (GMT +8)
• Thursday: Oct 21, 4:30am (GMT +2)
• Wednesday: Oct 20, 6:30pm (GMT -8, Pacific Time)

Don’t worry if you can’t make it live. The replay will be sent to you after the webinar.

(Note: The replay will only be sent to those who registered. If you know for sure you can’t make it live and you have some burning questions, just fill it up in the registration form, so you’ll still get your answer even if you’re not there live!)

PS: Ohhh… Please get ready your headset to listen to the webinar

But, in order for me to do *exactly* how you want it, you gotta let me know what you want by answering the below 3 questions:

1. What free information product would you love for me to
create JUST for you?

2. What is your biggest fear or frustration in business/life?

3. What is your ideal, perfect outcome?

What was the first thing cross your mind when you read these 3 questions? THAT is the one you wanna put it down

You can post your answers on The Happy World wall, at the comment box below or simply write to me here: info(at)yinlichua(dot)com

This is a rare chance I’m offering and it won’t go on forever, so grab the chance NOW. You have time to submit in your request till this Sunday, September 26, 2010.

- Yin Li

… or whatever you wanna switch on or off…

Bluntly, it just means — pay attention to where you concentrate on.

There are just TWO options you have here:

One is, concentrate on what you don’t have, which means all the things you “wish” to have cause you feel the absence of it, and that’s gonna bring you more of what you don’t have.

Two is, concentrate on what you do have, which means all the things you have “Right Now” cause this builds gratitude, harmony energy that’s gonna help to bring you more of good stuff!

Hey, I don’t care if you have a Ferrari or bicycle… If you have a Ferrari, be thankful that it can bring you from point A to point B. If you have a bicycle, be thankful that it can bring you from point A to point B.

Same same…

oh oh… stop right there. I know you gonna say “it’s not the same… yada yada yada…”.

The moment you put your concentration on the differences and feel the lack of it, then you’re putting your mind on the first point and brings more to yourself what you don’t like

Watch this video here, and let me know what you think

(psss… I especially like when he says, “When the right time comes, I’ll hold her heart, and I don’t need hands to hold her heart” — he’s SO true in this)

Finish watching?

Great! Now go make a list of things that you do appreciate Right Now, and start switching your mind!

When things that you want haven’t shown up yet — don’t ever give up. You just need to wait till the right time!

Love,

Yin Li

Whether we like it or not, our beliefs determine whether we’re making progress or stuck at the same place forever!

Scary? But true…

So now have you really really decided to make some changes?

Great!!! Welcome to the club!

I’m gonna show you how I did it, doing it and will be doing it!

Are you ready for some excitement??!! This will last you forever (well at least pretty long)

Step 1: Admit You Have One

Or several? — that makes the two of us

So, how to recognize if you have some distorted belief systems in you?

Simple.

Let’s just take ONE thing that you hated most but it keeps showing up.

Got it? Guuuuuud…

I’ll share with you what’s mine (you get a chance to share with me what’s yours at the comment box below later).

Once I had a REALLY great hair cut back in 2002/2003… I can still remember the super-star feeling that I had the moment I stepped out from the saloon!

But, alas!! The hairstylist moved to a new premise and I couldn’t locate him anymore — till today in fact!

Deep down inside me, I “believed” he is the ONLY one that could handle my hair nicely, and so I set out a mission to locate him! Also I “believed” none of other hairstylists could actually do as good job as him, even before I step into the shop each time I went for a hair cut…

The result? Yes you guessed it right — I kept attracting hairstylists that can’t do a nice job and getting unsatisfactory hair cut since then!

(almost 8 years! — gheee)

You can imagine how frustrated and disappointed I am all these while.

See that? — same thing keeps happening with different people.

How long am I going to let this continue? Well, not for another 8 years that’s for sure!

Things around us happen for a reason. And THAT reason is caused by our belief system.

Beliefs create emotions, emotions create hormones, hormones cause our body cells to behave (vibrate) in a certain way, the frequency from this vibration will be sent out from our body and a matching frequency will be brought back in front of you (that is the “results” you see in your life).

By just recognizing the deep down belief that we have, we build up an enormous powerful positive ability to make positive changes.

Use the Change Your Belief Systems worksheet below to help you to build powerful positive abilities.

Step 2: Planting New Belief Systems

One thing we must know is, there is always the opposite of everything.

I’ll take my uber strange hair cut belief as an example again… I love talking about it just to hit myself more on the head – just kidding, well sort of

My belief was, none of any other hairstylists could do a good as the previous one.

So, what’s the opposite in this case?

Yeap! – Tones of other hairstylists could do a great job or even better!

Now, I found a new belief for my bizarre hair cut history…

Let’s plant this new seed into the fertile ground – the mind!

When we recognize the distorted beliefs that we have, we not only grow positive abilities, we are also making a space for this new seed to grow.

This making-a-space-in-your-mind act sounds easy, but sometimes it is not if we’re not careful of that “sneaky devil” in our head

Who is this “sneaky devil”??

This “sneaky devil” is the one that tells us it’s not our fault, blame the others, we’re always right, the system is wrong, we’re the best, we must take control, power, possession, bla bla bla…

Have you got a clue yet?

Yeap — this “sneaky devil” is called EGO.

Our ego will blind us from the ability to see the real thing. Thus, we don’t stand a chance to recognize our distorted belief systems.

Use the Change Your Belief Systems worksheet below to help you make a solid space for planting your new seeds to have new happier results in your reality.

Step 3: Watering Your Seed (Grow Your Beliefs)

When you’re planting new plant, you gotta give it some food to grow, in this case is water.

Same goes for your new beliefs seeds.

You can’t have planted new beliefs but still keep the old beliefs’ feeling in you.

Watch how you feel when you think of your old beliefs, then compare to when you think of your new beliefs.

You wanna keep the super guuuud feelings of your new beliefs.

So, how to give food to your new beliefs seeds?

In this case, is the feeling.

Remember how feelings create hormones, hormones create vibration…. and so on?

That’s right — with this new feelings, you create new hormones, new vibration, new frequency…. and new RESULTS!

Beware of that “sneaky devil” again. This “sneaky devil” will try to convince you to keep your old feelings!

Then you’ll be like in yo-yo situation. One moment sending happy frequency (give food to new seeds), the next moment sending crap frequency (give food to old seeds).

Your new seeds will stop growing and probably die one day. Because the old seeds grow even stronger and take over all the space (which is YOU)!

Use the Change Your Belief Systems worksheet below to help you to consistently give food to your new seeds.

Step 4: Harvesting The Fruits

So what’s next?

You recognize the bizarre beliefs, you plant in new seeds, you give food to grow ‘em strong… Then you’re wondering when can you see the fruits (the new results), right?

To be honest, in fact you can see new results in 1 week. My shortest result manifesting was in 1-hour…. Yeap — you read that right.

But hey, you gotta put your mind down to work on it, ok… It won’t just drop from the sky by just saying “yeah I know now, please give it to me”.

Forget about all the promises that you don’t have to put any work, working on your mind still needs action! I’m showing you how to use that powerful 20% to get 80%… PLUS, put your action down.

The key to harvesting fruits is the expectation.

When we plant in new plant. We expect to see the new shoot sprung out from the soil, by not giving any specific rules to how it should look.

The same rule we should apply in this case. We should expect to receive the new results from our new beliefs, by not giving any specific rules to how it should come or how it should be!

Just relax, just know it will come.

Now all you have to do is, log in below to get the Change Your Belief Systems worksheet that will walk you thru all steps in details. And you too could have 1-hour harvesting experience!!

I’m gonna extend this week’s action plan a little further (thanks to the inspiration from Dave Navarro — a well-respected online business expert known as The Launch Coach).

If you have ONE specific belief system that you REALLY wanna get rid of immediately, put it down at the comment box below, and you get to win a chance to work with me together (that worth $600) to get it done!

You have ample of time to do that, till Sept 16! If you’re shy or afraid others to know about “how bizarre” your beliefs are, then I would say, get over it! No one would actually say that, people will appreciate you instead.

- Yin Li

PS: I once had a great consulting session with Dave Navarro. Not only he had inspired me, he also helped to affirm one of my beliefs. (psss… This consulting session with Dave was one of my fruits!)

Not some pretentious acts that can cover your ass for 3 days, nor any pretty clothes, branded stuff, fancy title/status and polished speech can do any good for you in REAL!

(Hey, no offense if you like pretty clothes and branded stuff, I like them too cause some of they are really pretty )

They might give you a very short-life confidence boost temporary. But when it comes to day-to-day interactions and standing firm in any situations, these people will run as fast as roadrunner or as soft as marsh mellow.

Worst still, become drama king/ queen.

To build real confidence, we need to start from inside ourselves.

Step #1: Know That You Are Fine As It IS

Hey, you don’t have to be as handsome as Brad Pitt nor super billionaire to feel confident.

And guess what?? You’ll be surprised that those “confident people” that you think, are probably having the greatest fear, sleepless nights and confidence level below zero.

I don’t care what your physical looks like now. But I can tell you one thing, once you build up your confidence level, you will have women jumping on you!

(Hey, I’m a woman, and I know what I’m saying! )

Same goes for business.

It is very fine if you’re a small business. Don’t have to act like big corporate, speak with sophisticated languages that 90% of the time people don’t understand.

People are doing business with You, the real you. This builds long term concrete relationships, which means $$$. (did you hear the cash sound? )

Step #2: Chuck Your Fear

Everybody once had bad experience, or even experiences. I know you’re afraid of having the repetitive situation again, nobody likes that, neither do I !

But keep on fearing it will happen, is not doing any good to you either.

(If you haven’t read my 3-step to get rid off your repetitive situation, read it now)

Fear, is the greatest enemy of confidence.

When we fear of something to happen, we act like an idiot, so to speak. Cause we tried to “do something” to protect ourselves, and all of our actions are “little” and stupid.

Immediately, you look like a “little person” (no matter how well-built you are), not handsome at all and don’t even speak about confident!

Step #3: Speak The Truth Calmly

Yes, I know it is hard to speak calmly when you have an eruption volcano inside.

When this volcano is performing its act, don’t speak. Go find your volcano corner and let it out.

But if you’re in a situation that you don’t have time to find your volcano corner, then just speak (not yell) the truth — which is your feeling, how it affects you, and give suggestions.

You’ll be surprised how “strong” you feel when you do this, as nothing beats the truth.

Please read on. At the end you’ll have the Confidence Building Worksheet to walk you thru the process.

Step #4: Know That Only The Best Is Coming To Us And Keep On Learning

People that are lack of confidence will always want to take control. (and that also doesn’t look handsome )

Loosen your grip, let others to perform their best. If they don’t, then you know that’s not the best for you.

What you’re in right now, is what’s the best for you right now.

Really.

It might not seems what you truly want, that’s why you’re here. To have the chance and learn the tools to refine yourself, polish your wants, your dreams, your thoughts and your mind.

(The Confidence Building Worksheet will have the tools to walk you thru this.)

Yes, our ego will tell us that we’re the best already, and we don’t need to learn anything else…

But always remember, there’s always something worth for us to learn from this person in front of us. The global knowledge network is so enormous. What we know is just like a drop of water in a deep ocean.

(Psss… Did I tell you a guy that’s very open for learning is very sexy?)

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And, feel the brand new You!

Yin Li

PS: What is the ONE area that you have always wanted to build up your confidence on. Write down this ONE thing, that you have always wanted to build, at the comment box below, or at The Happy World Wall. I’ll provide you more insight on that.