… or whatever you wanna switch on or off…

Bluntly, it just means — pay attention to where you concentrate on.

There are just TWO options you have here:

One is, concentrate on what you don’t have, which means all the things you “wish” to have cause you feel the absence of it, and that’s gonna bring you more of what you don’t have.

Two is, concentrate on what you do have, which means all the things you have “Right Now” cause this builds gratitude, harmony energy that’s gonna help to bring you more of good stuff!

Hey, I don’t care if you have a Ferrari or bicycle… If you have a Ferrari, be thankful that it can bring you from point A to point B. If you have a bicycle, be thankful that it can bring you from point A to point B.

Same same…

oh oh… stop right there. I know you gonna say “it’s not the same… yada yada yada…”.

The moment you put your concentration on the differences and feel the lack of it, then you’re putting your mind on the first point and brings more to yourself what you don’t like

Watch this video here, and let me know what you think

(psss… I especially like when he says, “When the right time comes, I’ll hold her heart, and I don’t need hands to hold her heart” — he’s SO true in this)

Finish watching?

Great! Now go make a list of things that you do appreciate Right Now, and start switching your mind!

When things that you want haven’t shown up yet — don’t ever give up. You just need to wait till the right time!

Love,

Yin Li

Whether we like it or not, our beliefs determine whether we’re making progress or stuck at the same place forever!

Scary? But true…

So now have you really really decided to make some changes?

Great!!! Welcome to the club!

I’m gonna show you how I did it, doing it and will be doing it!

Are you ready for some excitement??!! This will last you forever (well at least pretty long)

Step 1: Admit You Have One

Or several? — that makes the two of us

So, how to recognize if you have some distorted belief systems in you?

Simple.

Let’s just take ONE thing that you hated most but it keeps showing up.

Got it? Guuuuuud…

I’ll share with you what’s mine (you get a chance to share with me what’s yours at the comment box below later).

Once I had a REALLY great hair cut back in 2002/2003… I can still remember the super-star feeling that I had the moment I stepped out from the saloon!

But, alas!! The hairstylist moved to a new premise and I couldn’t locate him anymore — till today in fact!

Deep down inside me, I “believed” he is the ONLY one that could handle my hair nicely, and so I set out a mission to locate him! Also I “believed” none of other hairstylists could actually do as good job as him, even before I step into the shop each time I went for a hair cut…

The result? Yes you guessed it right — I kept attracting hairstylists that can’t do a nice job and getting unsatisfactory hair cut since then!

(almost 8 years! — gheee)

You can imagine how frustrated and disappointed I am all these while.

See that? — same thing keeps happening with different people.

How long am I going to let this continue? Well, not for another 8 years that’s for sure!

Things around us happen for a reason. And THAT reason is caused by our belief system.

Beliefs create emotions, emotions create hormones, hormones cause our body cells to behave (vibrate) in a certain way, the frequency from this vibration will be sent out from our body and a matching frequency will be brought back in front of you (that is the “results” you see in your life).

By just recognizing the deep down belief that we have, we build up an enormous powerful positive ability to make positive changes.

Use the Change Your Belief Systems worksheet below to help you to build powerful positive abilities.

Step 2: Planting New Belief Systems

One thing we must know is, there is always the opposite of everything.

I’ll take my uber strange hair cut belief as an example again… I love talking about it just to hit myself more on the head – just kidding, well sort of

My belief was, none of any other hairstylists could do a good as the previous one.

So, what’s the opposite in this case?

Yeap! – Tones of other hairstylists could do a great job or even better!

Now, I found a new belief for my bizarre hair cut history…

Let’s plant this new seed into the fertile ground – the mind!

When we recognize the distorted beliefs that we have, we not only grow positive abilities, we are also making a space for this new seed to grow.

This making-a-space-in-your-mind act sounds easy, but sometimes it is not if we’re not careful of that “sneaky devil” in our head

Who is this “sneaky devil”??

This “sneaky devil” is the one that tells us it’s not our fault, blame the others, we’re always right, the system is wrong, we’re the best, we must take control, power, possession, bla bla bla…

Have you got a clue yet?

Yeap — this “sneaky devil” is called EGO.

Our ego will blind us from the ability to see the real thing. Thus, we don’t stand a chance to recognize our distorted belief systems.

Use the Change Your Belief Systems worksheet below to help you make a solid space for planting your new seeds to have new happier results in your reality.

Step 3: Watering Your Seed (Grow Your Beliefs)

When you’re planting new plant, you gotta give it some food to grow, in this case is water.

Same goes for your new beliefs seeds.

You can’t have planted new beliefs but still keep the old beliefs’ feeling in you.

Watch how you feel when you think of your old beliefs, then compare to when you think of your new beliefs.

You wanna keep the super guuuud feelings of your new beliefs.

So, how to give food to your new beliefs seeds?

In this case, is the feeling.

Remember how feelings create hormones, hormones create vibration…. and so on?

That’s right — with this new feelings, you create new hormones, new vibration, new frequency…. and new RESULTS!

Beware of that “sneaky devil” again. This “sneaky devil” will try to convince you to keep your old feelings!

Then you’ll be like in yo-yo situation. One moment sending happy frequency (give food to new seeds), the next moment sending crap frequency (give food to old seeds).

Your new seeds will stop growing and probably die one day. Because the old seeds grow even stronger and take over all the space (which is YOU)!

Use the Change Your Belief Systems worksheet below to help you to consistently give food to your new seeds.

Step 4: Harvesting The Fruits

So what’s next?

You recognize the bizarre beliefs, you plant in new seeds, you give food to grow ‘em strong… Then you’re wondering when can you see the fruits (the new results), right?

To be honest, in fact you can see new results in 1 week. My shortest result manifesting was in 1-hour…. Yeap — you read that right.

But hey, you gotta put your mind down to work on it, ok… It won’t just drop from the sky by just saying “yeah I know now, please give it to me”.

Forget about all the promises that you don’t have to put any work, working on your mind still needs action! I’m showing you how to use that powerful 20% to get 80%… PLUS, put your action down.

The key to harvesting fruits is the expectation.

When we plant in new plant. We expect to see the new shoot sprung out from the soil, by not giving any specific rules to how it should look.

The same rule we should apply in this case. We should expect to receive the new results from our new beliefs, by not giving any specific rules to how it should come or how it should be!

Just relax, just know it will come.

Now all you have to do is, log in below to get the Change Your Belief Systems worksheet that will walk you thru all steps in details. And you too could have 1-hour harvesting experience!!

I’m gonna extend this week’s action plan a little further (thanks to the inspiration from Dave Navarro — a well-respected online business expert known as The Launch Coach).

If you have ONE specific belief system that you REALLY wanna get rid of immediately, put it down at the comment box below, and you get to win a chance to work with me together (that worth $600) to get it done!

You have exactly ONE whole week to do that, before Sept 2! If you’re shy or afraid others to know about “how bizarre” your beliefs are, then I would say, get over it! No one would actually say that, people will appreciate you instead.

- Yin Li

PS: I once had a great consulting session with Dave Navarro. Not only he had inspired me, he also helped to affirm one of my beliefs. (psss… This consulting session with Dave was one of my fruits!)

Not some pretentious acts that can cover your ass for 3 days, nor any pretty clothes, branded stuff, fancy title/status and polished speech can do any good for you in REAL!

(Hey, no offense if you like pretty clothes and branded stuff, I like them too cause some of they are really pretty )

They might give you a very short-life confidence boost temporary. But when it comes to day-to-day interactions and standing firm in any situations, these people will run as fast as roadrunner or as soft as marsh mellow.

Worst still, become drama king/ queen.

To build real confidence, we need to start from inside ourselves.

Step #1: Know That You Are Fine As It IS

Hey, you don’t have to be as handsome as Brad Pitt nor super billionaire to feel confident.

And guess what?? You’ll be surprised that those “confident people” that you think, are probably having the greatest fear, sleepless nights and confidence level below zero.

I don’t care what your physical looks like now. But I can tell you one thing, once you build up your confidence level, you will have women jumping on you!

(Hey, I’m a woman, and I know what I’m saying! )

Same goes for business.

It is very fine if you’re a small business. Don’t have to act like big corporate, speak with sophisticated languages that 90% of the time people don’t understand.

People are doing business with You, the real you. This builds long term concrete relationships, which means $$$. (did you hear the cash sound? )

Step #2: Chuck Your Fear

Everybody once had bad experience, or even experiences. I know you’re afraid of having the repetitive situation again, nobody likes that, neither do I !

But keep on fearing it will happen, is not doing any good to you either.

(If you haven’t read my 3-step to get rid off your repetitive situation, read it now)

Fear, is the greatest enemy of confidence.

When we fear of something to happen, we act like an idiot, so to speak. Cause we tried to “do something” to protect ourselves, and all of our actions are “little” and stupid.

Immediately, you look like a “little person” (no matter how well-built you are), not handsome at all and don’t even speak about confident!

Step #3: Speak The Truth Calmly

Yes, I know it is hard to speak calmly when you have an eruption volcano inside.

When this volcano is performing its act, don’t speak. Go find your volcano corner and let it out.

But if you’re in a situation that you don’t have time to find your volcano corner, then just speak (not yell) the truth — which is your feeling, how it affects you, and give suggestions.

You’ll be surprised how “strong” you feel when you do this, as nothing beats the truth.

Please read on. At the end you’ll have the Confidence Building Worksheet to walk you thru the process.

Step #4: Know That Only The Best Is Coming To Us And Keep On Learning

People that are lack of confidence will always want to take control. (and that also doesn’t look handsome )

Loosen your grip, let others to perform their best. If they don’t, then you know that’s not the best for you.

What you’re in right now, is what’s the best for you right now.

Really.

It might not seems what you truly want, that’s why you’re here. To have the chance and learn the tools to refine yourself, polish your wants, your dreams, your thoughts and your mind.

(The Confidence Building Worksheet will have the tools to walk you thru this.)

Yes, our ego will tell us that we’re the best already, and we don’t need to learn anything else…

But always remember, there’s always something worth for us to learn from this person in front of us. The global knowledge network is so enormous. What we know is just like a drop of water in a deep ocean.

(Psss… Did I tell you a guy that’s very open for learning is very sexy?)

Now, log in below by entering your username and email address, to get the Confidence Building Worksheet to help you walk thru the process in details.

(If you haven’t sign up as The Happy World member yet to get all the exclusive worksheets and workbooks, do it now! It’s FREE! Just click on the “Register Here” link below)

And, feel the brand new You!

Yin Li

PS: What is the ONE area that you have always wanted to build up your confidence on. Write down this ONE thing, that you have always wanted to build, at the comment box below, or at The Happy World Wall. I’ll provide you more insight on that.

Be it the same kind of relationship failure, same stories of bad business partnerships, getting same kind of bad experiences with different people, even keep getting sick!!

Or, if you’re building your business for a long time and wonder why you still can’t break thru or succeed, even though you have been getting some advices from “friends”, then it’s time for you to step out from the circle and look from a holistic view.

Here are the 3 areas that you can pay attention to and apply in your life right Now:

1. Mixing With The Wrong People Especially Naysayers

It is good to have objections from other people, then we can stop and reflect on what we’re doing.

But, if you keep getting this: “it can’t be done”, “it’s not possible”, “it’s too difficult”, “it’s not easy”, “no way you can do that”, “don’t do this”, “don’t do that”, “it will bring you failure”… yada yada yada…

Or, if you meet people that look down upon your ability, saying things that play you down (and they call that’s a joke)… well, you know what I mean, basically people that don’t make you feel good or even comfortable.

Then, it’s time for you to step aside, and watch what’s going on in the life of these people that keep telling you these negative statement.

You’ll find out their life is exactly the same way how their opinions sound like.

The one that told you business is hard, you’ll find his business is in hard time (almost most of the time). The one that told you business people are cunning bastards (please excuse me on my “true language” ), you’ll find him facing these kind of people in business all the time.

Or, you have been mixing around with boys that tell you, “ahhh, women are ‘like that’ “… or keep complaining how bad or bitchy women are. Guess what they get? Yeap — they get women ‘like that’, and you’ll hear them prove to you strongly the next time you meet!

If you wanna grow and have a happy life, do yourself a good favour, stay away from these people.

Start concentrating on how you can build a strong foundation for your inner self, and attract exactly the right people into your life experience.

2. Getting Too Much Opinions

Are you a person that always needed approval from friends or family members or someone who you called “expert”?

Even choosing your boyfriend/girlfriend? Worst still, getting opinion from friends if he/she can be a good husband/wife!

People that are constantly seeking approval from others, are the ones that don’t have trust in themselves.

In other words, they’re weak inside and need to use outer factors to show themselves strong or to prove they’re right.

(If you catch yourself doing this, you gotta stop this act right away!)

Everybody has their own believe system, and that’s how their life shows up that way.

If you take in what others have to tell you, you have just taken in their believe system, and live your life exactly like theirs!

This life doesn’t resonate with your heart, this is not the life that you want.

So, what do you think will happen if these outer layers start to peal off one by one?

Problems start to surfacing, and become bigger and bigger till you can’t control.

We are all born with the ability to do what we want to do.

Trust yourself.

Trust your feeling.

Trust your heart.

It’s time for you to learn how to trust yourself, if you really want to have a marvelous life.

3. Watch What’s In Your Mind

Hah! I can hear you’re saying there: “this woman is crazy, how to watch my mind?!”

In fact, it’s super easy to watch what’s in your mind.

Ok, of course I’m not asking you to watch all your thoughts in a day, then I would be really crazy!

First, pay attention to what happen in your surrounding. Especially those that you really don’t want or dislike.

Start from there.

Slowly, find out what’s in your mind on this issue. Especially your believe system towards this matter.

You’ll get the answer “why”, then there you go to plant in a new believe system to get what you really want.

Of course you need to practice in order to master this process.

One can’t play the full piece of Mozart when he first learn the piano. He needs to practice to perfection too.

The same goes for this.

You now have the 3 basic tools to play with now. Go apply them and see some good results showing up!

In the comment box below or at The Happy World wall, write ONE repetitive situation that you really want to get rid off or achieve break thru.

Yin Li

Everybody has a story to tell, that’s fine.

You can help them, but first, you have to help yourself.

This week’s action plan will show you how your fear that you constantly feel everyday is not going to bring you what you want, and how you can overcome that:

Step 1: Find Out What You Really Want

Ohh, that’s a super hard thing to do!

Really?

In fact, you know very well what you want all the time.

Your wish is what you want (even a tiny simple one), your dream is what you want, your prayer is what you want, the opposite of everything you hate is what you want!!

Now that sounds really simple to find out what you want isn’t it?

But but but… It is easy to be misled by our mind. (Due to the believe system that has been “implanted” into us )

The tip is — follow your heart. (As your heart always knows the truth and what’s best)

Listen to the little voice inside, even a tiny little soft feeling you have.

And, it is perfectly fine to “refine” what you want along the journey. Cause what you get right now might not be truly resonate with your heart.

Step 2: Grow The Harmony Feeling

It is interesting that we know what we want, but we constantly feel the “lack” of it.

That’s fear of not having it.

And yeap — what’s your dominant feeling (a.k.a frequency) that you send out, is gonna show up in your reality.

Remember the harmony feeling that you had once upon a time, when you’re spending a great time with someone, when you’re stroking your cat, when you’re having your hot bubble bath, when you’re riding your bicycle…

Just anything that makes you feel harmony…

(In my previous action plan I talked about keeping the happy feeling. If you haven’t read yet, please read here.)

Then start growing it… Remember in order to grow, the best way is to give.

You can start teaching others what you have learnt here, and show them how to grow their own harmony feeling or keeping the happy feeling.

~***~

Now, it’s time for you to get what you want!

Cause you deserved it!

Go now and do the above steps. Leave your achievements below or at The Happy World wall.

Love,

Yin Li

Be it frustration, anger, headache, confusion, or even heart ache…

But hey, as it’s called “normal”, so don’t beat yourself up too much when unwanted situation shows up in your life

You don’t want to generate too much “unwanted” bad energy to people around you – especially those you care a lot and meant a lot to you

Right?

Today, I’m gonna share with you how you can transform those unwanted situations into a New Desired Visions, and of course, materialize them!

Step 1: Stay Away and Calm Down

Why is it so important to stay away from all the “objects” that causes the unwanted situations?

Because, with all the negative energy around and keep influencing you, you can’t be possible to be able to feel happy and find the solutions.

Unless you’re VERY strong in your mind and you know how to protect yourself from being influenced by outside circumstances.

You could go for a walk, play with kids, listen to your happy songs, do some activities that can lift your happy energy up for example “give” to others / provide your service

I personally find being in the nature and “give” to others have extreme energy rejuvenation power.

Don’t forget, when you want to build, the best way is to give.

Step 2: Finding The New Direction

Alright, first, take out a piece of paper or something that you can write on. Put down all your new vision that you desired, that you want to see them to BE in your reality.

And YES – you’re right, all in Positive Sentences!

If you have read my previous action plan about “How To Get Rid Of Worries”, you’ll know how important it is to do this positive-sentence-step.

If not, please click on the above link and read it now.

And YES – even in building your company’s vision and mission!

Next is, find the feeling place of your vision and keeping it.

It’s a good idea that if you can keep this new vision somewhere visible to you everyday.

Else, just keep bring your mind back to this new vision as frequent as you can…

I personally find doing a very short 5-10 minutes meditation in the morning when you wake up and in the evening before you go to sleep has immense creation power.

During this meditation, you reinstate your new visions and feel the joy of it.

~***~

That is it!

Very simple – yet, very powerful.

You gotta do it to see it, and please share with me your new manifestation below. I would love to hear from you.

To your new visions!

Yin Li

You definitely can’t get well by thinking about the sickness and constantly feeling about the pain.

This week’s action plan will help you to stay healthy, fit and well all the time — even heal yourself!

Step 1: Find the feeling place

Everyone of us had this time when we feel lively, joyful, healthy and full of energy bouncing around…

Have you lost that feeling already?

If not, great!

If yes, go now and find that feeling place again.

This is the very first step you need to do if you want to stay well or even heal yourself from sickness.

I had healed myself from some sicknesses, and this is the way that I’m keeping myself healthy and well all the time now.

Step 2: Make it your habitual feeling

Now, by just finding your lively feeling place is not good enough.

The next step is equally important as well.

You gotta make your lively feeling place your habitual feeling all day long.

Yeap — even you have some sickness with you right now.

You see, the sickness that you has was the result from your previous thought and feeling place…

Yes I know, you think you never want that right?

The “results” right in front of you, shows what your thought before.

Your job is not arguing whether you did that or you didn’t do that. Your job NOW is to get well !

Drop the argument, start concentrating on getting well and stay well…

(psst: in fact if you really let the answer comes to you, you’ll find that you actually did have that thought (or I should say “fear”) some times ago — that’s how I found out the truth for my previous sickness as well)

~***~

If you would like to know how you could stay fit and slim, or loose some extra pound, you could check out my previous action plan about this here.

I lost 7kgs by using that method!

To your health,

Yin Li

Yeeeeehhhhhaaaaarrrr!!! Many happy return – again!

[pssst: I'm a pretty old soul]

I specifically chose this topic on this special day, cause LOVE is the most powerful energy in this whole universe!

This is the tool we can use to build everything and anything, even to win satanic …

But, we’re not gonna dwell upon how to fight satanic today, we’re gonna dwell upon “how to grow LOVE”

Ready??

Let’s take a sneak peak on this week’s action plan:

Step 1: Watch where you look!

For those with a partner, take a moment now — yes, NOW! And examine what is it that you’re looking in your partner.

What is the first thing that pop up your mind? Is it your complaints about him/her for what he/she shouldn’t do or should do?

Why not try this?

Look at what he/she does that pleases you either just now, sometimes ago or even once upon a time

Write it down on a small sticky note, and paste it right there he/she will see everyday.

Show your partner how much you appreciate that, and how that create a loving feeling or warmness in your heart.

Start with anything, even the feeling that you had when you first dating him/her for what him/her does.

This small gesture can shake the world. It is bigger than any amount of money or castle that you can provide to your partner.

For those without partner, it’s simple too… Look at all the people that have immediate contact with you, and give your appreciation — including a child

Step 2: Give, Give, Give!

Givers get. Start from small.

The more you give, the more love you grow in yourself, and you’ll attract the same kind of loving person to spend a loving life together.

Sounds simple? You gotta Take Actions to see it happen baby

Show what you can contribute, in anything and anywhere — especially when you know what he/she needs and you go and get them.

Do it from your heart, and not thinking, “ok now I have done my giving part, it’s his/her turn to give back”…

No No No… Not this way baby!

You’ll be surprised when you really give from your heart, with sincerity, you’ll get it back automatically!

No partner to give? Find a small kid and practice your giving …

Children are the best partners for you to give, and you’ll see how they give you back with wholeheartedly…

How often we must give?? Well, I would say EVERYDAY …

Or at least once a week. Make it a point that you’ll give at least once a week.

It’s not hard at all. Even you’re miles and miles far away with your loved ones, you can just send a small sms — this small sms is bigger than you could imagine!

~***~

Last but not least, we have to remember that we are LOVED, all the time.

Even if you think there’s no one on earth loves you, your guardian angel still loves you — very much indeed

Just you can’t see it

Now go and show your love!

Love,

Yin Li

That is — Get The Mindset Right!

This simple most critical element, is gonna determine whether you get the fund or not.

(Of course you also need to have the strategic business plan, we’ll talk about the “what” in the coming posts)

I’m gonna share with you here, the tactics that I have taught to a dear friend of mine to get the $1.5 billion fund thru successfully and fulfilling ALL the criteria as he wanted!

This week’s action plan is:

“Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but brings you nowhere…”

Worries, means, your mind keep projecting stuff that you don’t want. And so you keep receiving scenarios that make you unhappy.

Let’s see how we can take this “worries” away, and bring in circumstances that make us really happy…

This week’s action plan is: