3 Reasons Why You Always Have Repetitive Situation And How You Can Achieve Break Thru

Have you ever encounter a repetitive situation in your life?

Be it the same kind of relationship failure, same stories of bad business partnerships, getting same kind of bad experiences with different people, even keep getting sick!!

Or, if you’re building your business for a long time and wonder why you still can’t break thru or succeed, even though you have been getting some advices from “friends”, then it’s time for you to step out from the circle and look from a holistic view.

Here are the 3 areas that you can pay attention to and apply in your life right Now:

1. Mixing With The Wrong People Especially Naysayers

It is good to have objections from other people, then we can stop and reflect on what we’re doing.

But, if you keep getting this: “it can’t be done”, “it’s not possible”, “it’s too difficult”, “it’s not easy”, “no way you can do that”, “don’t do this”, “don’t do that”, “it will bring you failure”… yada yada yada…

Or, if you meet people that look down upon your ability, saying things that play you down (and they call that’s a joke)… well, you know what I mean, basically people that don’t make you feel good or even comfortable.

Then, it’s time for you to step aside, and watch what’s going on in the life of these people that keep telling you these negative statement.

You’ll find out their life is exactly the same way how their opinions sound like.

The one that told you business is hard, you’ll find his business is in hard time (almost most of the time). The one that told you business people are cunning bastards (please excuse me on my “true language” ), you’ll find him facing these kind of people in business all the time.

Or, you have been mixing around with boys that tell you, “ahhh, women are ‘like that’ “… or keep complaining how bad or bitchy women are. Guess what they get? Yeap — they get women ‘like that’, and you’ll hear them prove to you strongly the next time you meet!

If you wanna grow and have a happy life, do yourself a good favour, stay away from these people.

Start concentrating on how you can build a strong foundation for your inner self, and attract exactly the right people into your life experience.

2. Getting Too Much Opinions

Are you a person that always needed approval from friends or family members or someone who you called “expert”?

Even choosing your boyfriend/girlfriend? Worst still, getting opinion from friends if he/she can be a good husband/wife!

People that are constantly seeking approval from others, are the ones that don’t have trust in themselves.

In other words, they’re weak inside and need to use outer factors to show themselves strong or to prove they’re right.

(If you catch yourself doing this, you gotta stop this act right away!)

Everybody has their own believe system, and that’s how their life shows up that way.

If you take in what others have to tell you, you have just taken in their believe system, and live your life exactly like theirs!

This life doesn’t resonate with your heart, this is not the life that you want.

So, what do you think will happen if these outer layers start to peal off one by one?

Problems start to surfacing, and become bigger and bigger till you can’t control.

We are all born with the ability to do what we want to do.

Trust yourself.

Trust your feeling.

Trust your heart.

It’s time for you to learn how to trust yourself, if you really want to have a marvelous life.

3. Watch What’s In Your Mind

Hah! I can hear you’re saying there: “this woman is crazy, how to watch my mind?!”

In fact, it’s super easy to watch what’s in your mind.

Ok, of course I’m not asking you to watch all your thoughts in a day, then I would be really crazy!

First, pay attention to what happen in your surrounding. Especially those that you really don’t want or dislike.

Start from there.

Slowly, find out what’s in your mind on this issue. Especially your believe system towards this matter.

You’ll get the answer “why”, then there you go to plant in a new believe system to get what you really want.

Of course you need to practice in order to master this process.

One can’t play the full piece of Mozart when he first learn the piano. He needs to practice to perfection too.

The same goes for this.

You now have the 3 basic tools to play with now. Go apply them and see some good results showing up!

In the comment box below or at The Happy World wall, write ONE repetitive situation that you really want to get rid off or achieve break thru.

Yin Li

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