Lately, I received quite a bit of approach about “broken heart”. From men
Yeap! Who said men can’t have broken heart? It seems most of the relationship advises are “protecting” women, I have never seen a good “protection” for men.
Most of the “problems” were mainly about: “why is this happening to me, again?”, “why she broke up with me?”, “I think she is cheating on me!”, “what is the reasons she left me?”, “she changed after marriage”, “she’s not what I thought she used to be”, “I thought she’s the one”…. etc etc…
But, seriously my dear, you gotta stop all these mental chatters in your head, if you really want to find out the “why”, “what”, and “how”.
Christmas is approaching. Definitely it does not feel good when your family and relatives are asking you, “so, when are you getting married?”, “how’s xxx, why isn’t she here with you?”…
So, I decided to write this post, and give it to you men as an early Christmas present — and of course for my beloved women out there too! Hey, I’m a woman, I still “protect” my sistas
Perhaps you could use the tips given to finally get (or get back) the love of your life before Christmas! Or, perhaps, you can finally clear up your head and go with the bran-new-cool-VERY-available-chap celebration. Either way, I can guarantee you a fantastico Christmas this year!
In this post, I’m gonna show you the 3 BIG answers to: “Why”, “What”, and “How”.
If you’re not in “broken heart” categories, in or out of a relationship; this article can be an energy-boost to your heart! Read on baby!
Today is the day, to stop living for the future.
Hey, this present moment is all that you will ever experience or EVER have!
So, you must learn to enjoy the present, if you are ever to enjoy yourself at all!
(… if you don’t even enjoy yourself, how could you expect others to enjoy being with you?!)
Too many people postpone their happiness waiting for some future goals to be achieved.
People decide that they will be happy
“…when I get a better job”,
“…when I meet the love of my life”,
“…when my children are grown up”,
“…when I retire”
We use these excuses (many countless more that only you know ), to allow
ourselves to live with less enjoyment and happiness than we deserve.
Often time, when we accomplished one goal, we immediately create another. So that we’re constantly waiting for our lives to become worthy to enjoy… rather than simply enjoying the life we have Right Now!
Well, obviously it IS vital to keep striving towards the betterment of our lives, but we must also be able to enjoy ourselves while we are creating a better future.
The way to do this is, to realize that this present moment is all that we will ever experience!
Both the past and the future are abstractions of our mind.
The only intimate, real experience is that of this moment.
In this moment lies our ability to make changes in our lives, and create the future that we have always wanted.
If we cannot be happy now, when will we ever be happy?
So, what can I do now?
Hello Hello my buddies!
I know you have been waiting EAGERLY until today for the second part of the business lesson from the movie Avatar.
If you haven’t seen the movie yet, go get it from amazon.
Last week, we talked about what Grace said in the movie… It goes like this:
” I’m not talking about pagan voodoo here, I’m talking about something real, something measurable in the biology metaphors…
What we think we know, it’s some kind of electrochemical communication between the roots of the trees, like the synapses between neurons. And each tree has ten-to-the-fourth connections to the trees around it. And there are ten-to-the-twelve trees on the Pandora… It’s more connections than a human brain…
It’s a network. It’s a global network, and the Na’vi can access it. They can upload and download data. Memories…
… The wealth in this world isn’t in the ground. It’s all around us. The Na’vi know that, and they are fighting to defend it.”
Read on »
This week, I’m gonna do something real different
I’m gonna talk about movie! …
Yeap… Why? You’ll see
Have you seen this movie Avatar? (picture on the right)
If yes, great! If not, still cool… You can get it from amazon…
There are few hidden messages in this great movie. But I will just talk about 2 messages — which you can even apply in your business!
YES — in business (I heard you )
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Okie dokie my friends… There’s really no mystery when it comes to “switching your mind”, “switch your mind off”, “switch off depression”, “shut down your mind”, “shut down your brain”…
… or whatever you wanna switch on or off…
Bluntly, it just means — pay attention to where you concentrate on.
There are just TWO options you have here:
Before we get into the “How Tos”, let’s see ONE very simple fact, which happen to make very huge impact in our life.
Whether we like it or not, our beliefs determine whether we’re making progress or stuck at the same place forever!
Scary? But true…
So now have you really really decided to make some changes?
Great!!! Welcome to the club!
I’m gonna show you how I did it, doing it and will be doing it!
Are you ready for some excitement??!! This will last you forever (well at least pretty long)
When I said inside out, I really mean inside out.
Not some pretentious acts that can cover your ass for 3 days, nor any pretty clothes, branded stuff, fancy title/status and polished speech can do any good for you in REAL!
(Hey, no offense if you like pretty clothes and branded stuff, I like them too cause some of they are really pretty )
They might give you a very short-life confidence boost temporary. But when it comes to day-to-day interactions and standing firm in any situations, these people will run as fast as roadrunner or as soft as marsh mellow.
Worst still, become drama king/ queen.
To build real confidence, we need to start from inside ourselves.